For the next several weeks, I will be featuring a project that is near and dear to my heart. I recently moved back to my hometown in rural Tennessee for 3 months in order to take care of my grandmother.
Honestly, I was fearful to go back. I haven’t stayed in the area for a significant amount of time since I graduated from college in 2003. I’m not bashing the area; the people are beautiful, and the southern hospitality is wonderful. People go out of their way to say hello there. My fear came from the fact that I am publicly out as gay. Not a little out, but ‘I’m engaged to marry a woman this year’ out.
As I was growing up in my hometown, I felt alone. I thought I was the only person that was struggling with my sexual orientation. I’ve come to realize that I was never alone. There were others just like me; we even went to school together. I wonder what it would have been like if we all had known that there were others around us struggling with the same thing.
This project will highlight people from my hometown who have found the courage to live authentically and want others to know that they are not alone. Allies have also been included to let others know that they are there in the area, supporting the LGBTQ community. Some participants still live in the area, while others have moved to other areas.
May this project find its way to those who need to know that they are not alone.